Sunday, March 27, 2011

Social Butterflies

We are all social butterflies from the moment of conception. It was a social encounter that put us in the womb and another social encounter that helped brought us into this social interacting world. If it was not for the social encounter of our parents we would not be here. As infants we are solely dependent upon the social embrace of our mother to continue living once we are birthed into this world. The many hugs and kisses that were given so affectionately by our parents and grandparents warm embrace are so important to our social world.

Yes. We are all social butterflies. We need stimulating. We need the social communication between male and female. We need the social hand shake for meet and greet. We need the social smile when we pass each other on the streets that silently says, "hello." We need to make that social call to family, friends, co-workers or acquaintances to say something that's usually nothing....just to feel that social stimulant of the phone against our ear and that soothing or to some can be harsh. But, whether its good, bad or in different we need it to stimulate our growth in this big wide world of social media. We are all social butterflies.

It doesn't matter whether you are rich or poor....black, brown, yellow skinned or dark skinned...It doesn't matter whether you are 6 months old or 110 years old. It doesn't matter whether you are gay or straight..It doesn't matter whether you are the poorest of the poor or Rich Rich himself..It doesn't matter whether you are the biggest Hollywood starlet or the starlet at Pizza Hut. It is important to our way of life on this earth. It makes a difference between living or dying. It plays an important role in life's hierarchy whether you are a rich man or poor man.  We are all social butterflies whether we want to be or not.

Some people kid themselves when they say they don't need anyone...now that's a bunch of bull! We can't run from it nor can we hide from it. We were all born to be social butterflies. Humans need to be socially stimulated and connected. Some need the approval of others to make them whole. Some need the approval of media to prove that they are perfect. We are all on social media to get some type of stimulation; Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, etc.. We need the social communication of others. And we all need the touch of another human being to survive and produce.
Yes. - We are all SOCIAL BUTTERFLIES.

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Sunday, March 20, 2011

Relationships-Mate Selection

Debut Book
Mutts and Thoroughbreds:A Girls' Guide
"You've read many books talking about love and relationships but no one has written it quite like this surreal read."

YOU HAVE ONE LIFE -
HOW DO YOU WANT TO LIVE IT?

Hello, bloggers and readers around the world. I want to personally introduce you to my debut book title "Mutts and
Thoroughbreds:A Girls' Guide."
This surreal read is all about life, relationships and mate selection when it comes to love and marriage. We all want it! Need it! Desire it and seek it! Every living thing on this earth want love, companionship and marriage at some point their life. The question that we seek is "How do we choose the right mate?"

There is no crystal ball in the world that can tell us who is the right mate or companion. Each one of us have a built in sensor that tells us who is the perfect companion but most people are just not tuned in to their body senses. Most of us fall prey to the wrong mate. I believe every person in the world is born to live a happy life but its the choices that we make that control our destiny to include our mate selection. Mate selection plays a HUGE part in our life on this earth. It even plays an important role on an individual long and short life span. I believe with the right companion, a person can live longer but the wrong mate can shorten a persons life span. My point is the wrong mate comes with stress and we all know that stress tears the body down. Sure there are other things in life can shorten your life for example; diseases and accidents. But my focus is only on love and marriage.

There is no perfect male or female on this earth but the right mate is out there for you. You have to know the signs to look for. You have to stay connected to your inner being and just because someone makes you feel good doesn't mean to stray away from your core values. In realtionships, people get caught up in the other persons desires and fantasies.You have to know what you like and does this person have the qualities and morals that you seek. You have to go pass the wedding gown in love and relationships. I believe the most important factor is "Can you live together in holy matrimony under the same roof?" Lust and desire is one thing but do you LOVE this person enough to live under the same roof with them and all their habits. The other question is "Can they live with you and your habits?" Love is really blind because often times we are blinded by people terrible habits and because of this... quickly find out after marriage that we just can't "co-habitat" with them.

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 commitment and relationships..You got to read the book!
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Sunday, March 6, 2011

Going Home

All Girlz Dream blog page is not a poetry blog but because my niece (Victoria) who is so talented beyond her years and a genius at putting words on paper...I just have to share her words with the world. Her poetry is so thought provoking and surreal.  I want to share this one with you because so many of us are not with our love ones for various reasons. Some have left home because of a mis-understanding, mis-communication or lack thereof. I want you to know that someone in this world is always thinking of you. I dedicate this to all of you who are trying to find there way back home.

Going Home

Its been 5 years since I've seen that front door.
Its been 1,825 days since I've walked those steps.
I don't think I can go back there anymore.
The years have rolled away like raindrops on the bus window,
 and the days have danced their ballet across my
mind like melting shadows
unto the dark slick road I've been traveling on.
The stars fade away into the coming dawn -
 I've been gone so long.
And the memories that I'm left with only blanket
my mind like snow that's passing in front of me now.
Is this place so foreign to me? 
 Am I such a stranger that no one will recognize me?
I stand on these steps that are kissed with ice - 
my face is frozen with the look of longing because I know 
I have no where else to go.
As the door bell chimes its warming song that vibrates
back into my heart,
such familiar eyes have graced mine now and she takes me up
 into her arms and even though, the snow is seeping into my cheeks
I feel no chill.
Its been 3 minutes since I've been there.
Its been 180 seconds since I've felt this embrace 
weep me up in this loving soul.
I've known all along this is where I needed to go.
The sun perks over the trees and soaks me in remembrance,
and I know that from all the places that I've gone
this is home. 

Written By
Victoria Dugger
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