Marriage Is A Serious Thing!

I was thinking today about marriage and how serious marriage really is when two people decide to join hands in holy matrimony. I don't believe that many people take marriage serious enough.  Marriage is much more than choosing a thousand dollar gemstone or a one of a kind Vera Wang wedding gown. Its more than the ten thousand dollar reception where both partners or parents have saved their life savings just to watch other people for two to three hours dance, eat and drink the night away.

Marriage is not something that when you get tired of looking at one another - You can just pick up and just leave without the law of the land getting involved. Once you say
"I do" in that moment your marriage is bond by law and only law of some kind can only separate you. I'm not trying to scare anyone from marriage but just want you to know its really a serious matter.  Marriage is a total entity from dating. Marriage is no longer boyfriend and girlfriend - By eyes of law - You are husband and wife...That's a serious matter.

Marriage is a total communication work out. Communication, love and trust is what going to keep the marriage in tact. Respect plays a key role in a marriage. Respect can also play a big part infidelity; whereas it can stop someone from going astray because of the respect that the two partners have from one another.  Can a partner fall out of love in a marriage? Sure. It happens but "respect" will keep it civil.

Marriage is definitely a two way deal. Marriage is a 50/50 arrangement. Not one contributing 90% and the other 10%..Its simply not going to work. Both partners have to come to the table with something..Meaning some kind of ability that will compliment one hand to another. In order for it to really work both partners gotta want it! A good marriage is never a one side deal. Marriage is also an open book. There are no secrets in a good marriage.  If you are getting married..Just want you to know that its a serious matter.

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Angela Patterson, Author